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In a world where most harnesses for butt play are either underwear-style or strappy leather, the SpareParts Joque is the best of both worlds: a strappy, adjustable harness that doesn’t dig in and can go in the washing machine afterwards.

A good anal sex toy is (ideally) in the butthole of the beholder. Anal toys are a great way to explore during your next solo masturbation sesh or enhance your sex life with a partner or two, whether as a main event or as a build-up to other activities. But how do you know which toy is right for you? That’s where the nJoy Fun Wand comes in. If you want the sensation of anal beads without the risk, or love the nJoy Pure Plug or other stainless steel toys and want to explore that further, the Fun Wand is a great way to do it.

With an insertable length of 4 inches, this aerodynamically-shaped dildo offers stylish penetration that is sleek and weighty. When shopping for a new anal sex toy, consider what it’s made out of, as well as its size and shape. Silicone and stainless steel are great materials for any anal toy because they’re non-porous and easy to clean. While it’s generally true that folks who are more experienced enjoy toys that are a little bigger, and less experienced folks feel more comfortable with toys that are a little smaller, going too small for your first experience might leave you unsatisfied.

Not all anal beads are created equal. Many have bases that are too small to be safe, loops you need to awkwardly keep a finger through during use, or “strings” between beads that are porous, bacteria-housing, and can easily lead to a host of STIs. If your toy is bigger and your movements enthusiastic, you might find that wearing a pair of tight-fitting boxers with a fly for the dildo over the Joque will give you better control—though this isn’t often the case with leather, arguably this trade-off is worth it for an adjustable, affordable harness that’s easy to clean.In my opinion, if you’re not using sex toys, you’re really missing out. This roundup of toys takes sexual pleasure to new levels, whether it’s teasing your P-spot or simulating realistic oral sex. Always remember to practice safe sex-toy hygiene regardless of who is using the product and where it is being used. And like most sex-related things, a little lube is probably not a bad idea. Don't let its squishy appearance fool you: The Mustang is the biggest, most realistic toy on our list, offering 6.5 inches of insertable stimulation.

Often with penetrative sex toys, bigger is bigger: If you want big sensations, at a certain point you need something that’s physically bigger in size. No so with the Pure Plug. Its delicious weight delivers a feeling of fullness even at a smaller size. It’s also gorgeous.

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The nJoy Pure Plug just might be the perfect sex toy. It has a smooth bulb attached to a tapered stem and looped flange, which means that once it’s in, you won’t have to worry about it slipping out. Removal is easy, too: Just hook a finger through the base and gently tug it out, no matter how slippery your lube-coated fingers might get. Dr. Fleming suggests choosing a small metal or glass butt plug, specifically, because they’re nonporous (so pathogens, like certain bacteria, have a more challenging time settling into the plug) and easy to clean. Both materials are also safe to use with any type of lube, whether water-, oil- or silicone-based. What are some tips for trying anal play for the first time?